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West New York, New Jersey, USA — Angry African American couple standing back to back — Image by \u00a9 Jose Luis Pelaez, Inc.\/Blend Images\/Corbis<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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There are a variety of thoughts that enter the average person\u2019s mind after going through a breakup: \u201cI hate her,\u201d\u00a0\u201cI\u2019ll never love again,\u201d\u00a0\u201cI wonder if throwing his TV out the bedroom window will be enough to break it.\u201d But\u00a0of course, these aren\u2019t the only thoughts that dominate the minds of a broken heart. For lovers, \u201cI want my ex back\u201d or \u201cWe should really be getting back together\u201d are also\u00a0common notions.<\/p>\n

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But that\u2019s not enough when trying to learn how to get your ex back.\u00a0If it were that easy, people everywhere would be reuniting and every single divorce attorney would be out of a job. Instead, wanting an ex back is just like wanting anything else: you have to work for it.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Sometimes, the best way to do this is to allow yourself to be clich\u00e9. So here\u2019s\u00a0how to get your ex back and rekindle your romance.<\/p>\n

1. Prove you deserve a second chance<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to engage in a little less talk (or, in this case, thought) and a lot more action. Simply yearning to reconcile will do nothing; rather, you must put a plan in motion to make that reconciliation possible.<\/p>\n

This starts by\u00a0fixing yourself and whatever faults you brought into the relationship. Then it climaxes with you showing your ex that you are worthy of a second chance. Things have gotten tough, but\u00a0it\u2019s time for you to rise to the occasion.<\/p>\n

2. Learn from your mistakes<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes the surest way to make your friends and family members roll their eyes is to tell them you are getting back together with your ex. After all, some people believe that the very definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. Thus, you must do something new.<\/p>\n

You and your ex broke up for a reason, so learn from it. Your breakup didn\u2019t kill you, so allow it to make you stronger or, at the very least, make you smarter.<\/p>\n

3. Give them time and be patient<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anyone who has ever cooked rice knows that constantly watching the pot turns Minute Rice into Twenty Minute Rice. A\u00a0pot that is being watched is much shyer about being brought to a boil. An ex is sort of like this.<\/p>\n

If you are trying to get your ex back in a pushy manner \u2014 you call them constantly, you ask them out for a casual coffee but then insist on talking about your relationship, you ask them if they\u2019re dating anyone every chance you get \u2014 your ex isn\u2019t likely to come running into your arms. Instead, you\u2019re likely to leave them boiling in anger.<\/p>\n

Reconciliation takes patience, so give your ex enough time and space to realize they miss you.<\/p>\n

4. Show them you\u2019ve changed with actions, not words<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have realized the role you played in the demise of your relationship. Maybe you were selfish or cold or so needy that you expected your ex to call and check in no matter what they were in the middle of.<\/p>\n

Whatever problems you perpetuated, you swear you\u2019ve changed. In fact, you\u2019ve told your ex this \u2014 you\u2019ve called them, texted them, emailed them and you\u2019ve even stopped just short of paying a pilot to write your message in the sky. In other words, you\u2019ve talked the talk. Now, it\u2019s time to walk the walk.<\/p>\n

You can tell your ex that you\u2019ve changed as much as you want. But\u00a0until you actually show them the new and improved you, don\u2019t expect a reconciliation. Talk is cheap. It\u2019s the action that\u2019s worthy of investment.<\/p>\n

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Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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