{"id":14104,"date":"2019-02-01T07:34:56","date_gmt":"2019-02-01T07:34:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kumasionlinegh.com\/?p=14104"},"modified":"2019-02-01T07:34:56","modified_gmt":"2019-02-01T07:34:56","slug":"5-ways-to-know-if-your-relationship-is-moving-too-quickly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kumasionlinetv.com\/?p=14104","title":{"rendered":"5 ways to know if your relationship is moving too quickly"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Healthy relationships\u00a0are most likely to move at \u2018the right\u2019 pace. Of course, when it comes to how fast a relationship should move, there are no definitive rules. Really, it\u2019s all about how you\u2019re both feeling and what feels comfortable.<\/p>\n

Taking it slow\u00a0can sometimes be a good thing depending on the type of people you are. Which is why it\u2019s important to take stock of how quickly your relationship is moving.<\/p>\n

\u201cA number of factors can regulate the progress of a relationship,\u201d says Carole Ann Rice, a leading\u00a0relationship expert and coach. \u201cBut the most important thing is that you are building something healthy and full of substance.\u201d Carole says the following signs might indicate you\u2019re moving a little too quickly.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not getting much personal space<\/h4>\n

Everyone, regardless of their personality, can benefit from having time to themselves. And, this one works both ways \u2013 allow your partner space, and make sure you are getting space, too. \u201cIn a new relationship, it seldom occurs where you spend every minute of every day with a person,\u201d Carole explains.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf your partner is constantly asking you where you are, wanting to know exactly what you\u2019re doing, or even asking to be with you more than you wish for, it is a sure sign that your relationship could be moving too quickly.\u201d<\/p>\n

They invite you to go\u00a0everywhere<\/em>\u00a0with them<\/h4>\n

This one\u2019s kind of linked to personal space. \u201cAlthough contact is important in the early stages of getting to know someone, too much of it can be suffocating,\u201d Carole explains.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf your partner is constantly inviting you to places and events, but you can\u2019t really be bothered, it may be time to have a talk and set boundaries. Having time apart from each other is healthy \u2013 and there\u2019ll be many opportunities to do things together in the future.\u201d<\/p>\n

Meeting their family before you\u2019re ready<\/h4>\n

It\u2019s totally normal to be filled with the fear of god at the idea of\u00a0meeting someone\u2019s family\u00a0for the first time. \u201cIt\u2019s a huge milestone for many people as it adds a new dimension to the relationship,\u201d Carole says.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut, it can be highly stressful, and maybe even a little intimidating. If you aren\u2019t ready for it, you need to delay this primary encounter as you could set a bad impression \u2013 and dampen the relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n

Excessive future planning<\/h4>\n

It\u2019s easy to get\u00a0carried away\u00a0when you\u2019re planning a future together, and that\u2019s not necessarily always a bad thing. \u201cIt helps organisation within the relationship, and it could enhance each other\u2019s goals,\u201d she explains.<\/p>\n

\u201cHowever, if the plans are getting a little out of your comfort zone, this is a red flag. If you\u2019ve just started dating someone, and they\u2019re already trying to discuss major life events like buying a home, children, and marriage, it is time to slow down.\u201d And vice versa, if you\u2019re bringing up super big things like buying a house together very early on, you might want to take a step back and reassess.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re feeling a bit tied down<\/h4>\n

In any healthy and respectful relationship, commitment is obviously key. \u201cThe blanket of security has to be there in order for it to flourish,\u201d Carole says. \u201cBut too much commitment is suffocating. A relationship should be natural, easy, and move at a pace that is right for both parties. If your partner is making decisions for you, obligating you to things that make you uncomfortable, or assuming that you agree without consulting how you feel, then it\u2019s time to slow it down.\u201d<\/p>\n

Be sure to always check in with yourself, to see how you\u2019re feeling. When it comes to relationships and what\u2019s right and wrong, you can pretty much always trust your gut instinct.<\/p>\n

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Source: UK Cosmo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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