{"id":24352,"date":"2021-06-28T08:08:21","date_gmt":"2021-06-28T08:08:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kumasionlinegh.com\/?p=24352"},"modified":"2021-06-28T08:08:22","modified_gmt":"2021-06-28T08:08:22","slug":"outcry-over-south-africas-multiple-husbands-proposal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kumasionlinetv.com\/?p=24352","title":{"rendered":"Outcry over South Africa\u2019s multiple husbands proposal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A proposal by the South African government to legalise polyandry \u2013 when a woman has more than one husband at the same time \u2013 has led to howls of protest from conservative quarters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This does not surprise Professor Collis Machoko, a renowned academic on the topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The objections are \u201cabout control,\u201d he told the BBC. \u201cAfrican societies are not ready for true equality. We don\u2019t know what to do with women we cannot control.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>South Africa has one of the world\u2019s most liberal constitutions, embracing same-sex marriages for all and polygamy for men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Businessman and TV personality Musa Mseleku \u2013 who has four wives \u2013 is among those opposed to polyandry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThis will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity?\u201d asks Mr Mseleku, who stars in a South African reality TV show about his polygamous family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe woman cannot now take the role of the man. It\u2019s unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man. Will the man be expected to take her surname?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Secret unions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Prof Machoko researched polyandry in his country of birth \u2013 neighbouring Zimbabwe. He spoke to 20 women and 45 co-husbands who practised it, even though such marriages are socially taboo and not legally recognised.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cPolyandry, because it is shunned by parts of society, has been forced underground. The secrecy is similar to the one found in freemasons,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhen confronted by somebody whom they do not trust or do not know, they even deny that such a marriage exists. All this is because of fear of reprisals and persecution.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The participants in Prof Machoko\u2019s study all lived separately but were committed to the polyandrous union and were open about it among themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cOne wife nourished the idea of wanting to be a polyandrous woman when she was in grade six [aged around 12 years] after learning about how the queen bee in a hive hosts many bee co-husbands,\u201d the professor said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When she was an adult she started having sex with multiple partners who were all aware of each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cFour of her current nine co-husbands were in that first group of boyfriends.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In polyandry, the woman often initiates the relationships, and invites the husbands to join her union. Some pay the bride price, others opt to contribute to her livelihood. She has the power to remove a co-husband if she believes he is destabilising her other relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prof Machoko said love was the main reason the men he interviewed said they had agreed to be co-husbands. They did not want to risk losing their wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some men also referred to the fact that they did not satisfy their wives sexually, agreeing to the suggestion of a co-husband to avoid divorce or affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another reason was infertility \u2013 some men consented to the wife taking another husband so that she could have children. In this way, the men \u201csaved face\u201d in public and avoided being stigmatised as \u201cemasculated\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Clerics upset<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Prof Machoko said he was unaware of polyandrous marriages in South Africa. Nevertheless, gender rights activists have asked the government to legalise such unions in the interest of equality and choice, as the law currently permits a man to take more than one wife.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their proposal has been included in a document \u2013 officially known as a Green Paper \u2013 that the government has released for public comment as it embarks on the biggest overhaul of marriage laws since white-minority rule ended in 1994.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s important to remember that this Green Paper sets to uphold human rights and we cannot lose sight of that,\u201d said Charlene May, an advocate at the Women\u2019s Legal Centre, a law firm that fights for women\u2019s rights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe cannot reject law reform because it challenges certain patriarchal views in our society.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Source:<\/strong><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">BBC<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Send your news stories to\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:dannyboy744@gmail.com\">dannyboy744@gmail.com<\/a>\u00a0and via WhatsApp on +233 266777777<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A proposal by the South African government to legalise polyandry \u2013 when a woman has more than one husband at the same time \u2013 has led to howls of protest from conservative quarters. 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