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<\/p>\n\n\n\nMen tend to think the more they invest in the girl, the more she\u2019ll appreciate and love them. Sadly, even though you could be dropping big bucks on her and giving her all the attention in the world, it doesn\u2019t mean she feels the same. That\u2019s why you need to learn the signs she\u2019s using you. Below are top possible signs which indicates that a girl is playing you for fun or better still she is using you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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She often needs her space. Okay, so she hung out with you on the weekend but now, she needs her space. Treating you like every other guy. But you thought you had something special, right? This is probably going to lead you to wonder \u2018is she using me\u2019 and you\u2019d probably be right. Right when you feel discouraged, she comes back, reeling you back in. When she takes her space from you, she\u2019s probably weighing up her other options.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her people don\u2019t know you. She has friends, let\u2019s not be ignorant. But you\u2019ve never met them before. Or if you have, maybe once or twice. Her friends are the ones that are going to critique you, but she doesn\u2019t even introduce you to them. That\u2019s because she doesn\u2019t see you as someone she\u2019s going to be with. Rather, you\u2019re a stepping stone to the next guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She\u2019s into your bank account. Unfortunately, this is one of the most obvious signs she\u2019s using you. You may hate your job and complain about it all the time, but she loves it. She\u2019s usually a great listener when it comes to your bank account and financial status. Why? Because that\u2019s one of the major reasons she\u2019s with you. If not, who would buy her everything she wants and more?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your family and friends don\u2019t like her. It\u2019s highly likely that your friends have met her first before your family. The good thing about friends and family is that they\u2019re usually upfront and honest with you. In other words, they don\u2019t like her. At the same time, she\u2019s trying to push you further away from them, trying to shift your attention onto her and only her. It\u2019s a tactic to keep you all to herself, but only when it suits her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She\u2019s only into you at certain times of the day. This sounds weird but have you noticed that she only hangs out with you before the evening or only after 10 pm? It\u2019s strange behavior but completely makes sense. If it\u2019s after 10 pm, she may only see you as a booty call and doesn\u2019t want to invest any more time into you. Before the evening, she isn\u2019t interested in spending her nights beside you. She\u2019s simply putting you on shifts to suit her. It\u2019s one of the signs she\u2019s using you because otherwise the time of day just wouldn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She\u2019s always slow to reply to you. Whether it\u2019s via text message or phone call, she\u2019s not quick to get back to you. Of course, some people are too busy at work to reply, but you always have a minute to quickly reply to someone you care about. Especially in today\u2019s world where we\u2019re all glued to our phones. But if she takes hours to reply, she doesn\u2019t really care and that\u2019s simply because she\u2019s keeping you around for what she wants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n